Direct & Indirect Communication

ADVANCEDCOMMUNICATION LANGUAGESPEAKING

11/27/20222 min read

When communicating, I lean towards...

Direct or Indirect Communication

Direct Language:
  • Values efficiency and trustworthiness.

  • Uses simple, straightforward language.

  • Avoids confusing the listener.

  • Clear, concise is better than wordy.

Indirect Language:
  • Maintains polite, respectful manners.

  • Uses subtle, particular word choices.

  • Avoids offending the listener.

  • Courtesy is better than concise.

Which communication style do you lean more towards? Direct language? Indirect language?

There were only 1/3 of the attendees.

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Indirect Communication:

Sarah:    About how many people attended the conference?

Yu-na:     *This year, there were only 1/3 of the attendees.

Sarah:     I apologize. I don't understand.

Yu-na:     *The annual conference usually hosts 5000 people.

Sarah:     **So now you are going to make me do math? Okay, so 5000 people times 1/3 is...1,650.

Yu-na:     That's right, about 1,600 people.

Sarah: Okay???

*Indirect communication in Yu-na's answer makes it difficult for Sarah to understand.

**Although the conversation may be accurate, many American speakers may need clarification on the story.

....

— Instead, Think Direct Communication! —
Direct Communication:

Sarah:    About how many people attended the conference?

Yu-na:     *About 1,600 people.

Sarah: That's fantastic.

*With direct communication, Yu-na's answer is easy for Sarah to understand.

....

— If Yu-na wants to show disappointment due to the low turnout, she can respond accordingly —
Direct com, followed by disappointment:

Sarah:    About how many people attended the conference?

Yu-na:     *About 1,600 people, which is 1/3 of the attendees. The annual conference usually hosts 5000 people.

Sarah: Oh, I am so sorry to hear that.

*With direct communication, Yu-na's answer is easy for Sarah to understand, and Yu-na can share her disappointment due to the low turnout.

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Indirect & Direct Communication

When communicating, I lean towards...

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  • Many people may find that indirect communication is thoughtful and shares the entire story.

  • Others may find indirect communication as confusing and time wasting.  

Direct Communication
Indirect Communication
  • May people may find that direct communication is clear and easy to understand. 

  • Others may find direct communication as rude and lacks thoughtfulness or understanding.

Which communication style do you lean more towards? Direct language? Indirect language?

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